Substitute Elderly Assistant

Substitute Elderly Assistant

Mrs. Anna Schultzy was apprehensive as she stood at the front door, her heart filled with a mix of anxiety and hope. The decision to hire someone to assist her elderly mother, Doris, had not come lightly. With her mother's health declining and her own responsibilities mounting, she longed to keep Doris in the comfort of her home rather than place her in a nursing facility. Yet, when she learned that Patrick's wife, Mary, would be delayed by two weeks with her last client, a wave of uncertainty washed over her.

Just as despair began to creep in, Patrick showed up at the door. He stood there confidently in his crisp scrubs, his demeanor calm and professional. He introduced himself, emphasizing his years of experience as a registered nurse and his genuine desire to help the elderly. Considering the circumstances, Mrs. Schultzy felt a flutter of hope. She had loved the idea of having a trusted caregiver in Mary, so perhaps Patrick, with his extensive credentials, could serve just as well---at least temporarily.

After a brief moment of hesitation, she nodded slowly, acknowledging that time was of the essence. With each passing day, the stress of managing her mother’s needs weighed heavily on her shoulders, and every moment spent in a sort of limbo felt unbearable. She invited Patrick inside, her hesitation quickly transforming into a sense of relief.

The living room was bright and homey, filled with family photographs on the walls and a warm, inviting couch that bore witness to many shared moments over the years. As Patrick stepped inside, he scanned the room, his trained eye taking in the small details: the hand-knit throw draped over the arm of the couch, the faint scent of lavender from a nearby diffuser, and the faint sound of Doris humming softly to herself from her room down the hall.

Mrs. Schultzy sat across from Patrick his hands clasped tightly on the kitchen table. Patrick nodded respectfully, a small notepad in hand, ready to jot down anything he might need to know.

“Patrick,” Mrs. Schultzy began, her voice tinged with a mix of hope and worry, “thank you for being here. My mother, Doris, she’s… well, she’s not the easiest person to care for. But she’s my mother, and I want to do everything I can to keep her at home.”

Patrick smiled kindly, “I understand, Mrs. Schultzy. Please, tell me everything I need to know.”

Mrs. Schultzy exhaled deeply. “First, she has arthritis in her hands and knees, so she’ll need help with daily tasks---dressing, bathing, even eating on bad days. She also has early-stage dementia, which means she gets confused or forgetful. Sometimes she’ll forget who I am or where she is, and she can get agitated when she’s scared.”

Patrick nodded, taking notes diligently.

“She’s diabetic, too. You’ll need to monitor her blood sugar levels and make sure she eats properly. She doesn’t always remember to, and when she does, she craves sweets. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve found her sneaking cookies.”

Patrick chuckled softly. “I’ll keep an eye on that.”

“And the thing is, "Mrs. Schultzy continued her voice thickening with emotion, “if this arrangement doesn’t work out---if Doris can’t live with you as her aid---then we’ll have no choice but to move her into a nursing home. I don’t want that for her, but I’m running out of options.”

Patrick reached out a reassuring hand. “Mrs. Schultzy, I’ll do my best to help Doris feel safe and cared for. We’ll take it one day at a time.”

Mrs. Schultzy smiled faintly, her grip on her composure loosening just enough to let a tear slip down her cheek. “That’s all I can ask for. Thank you, Patrick. Truly.”

Together, they stood, ready to face the challenges ahead for Doris’ well-being.

Mrs. Schultzy guided Patrick down the hallway to Doris’s room, where an atmosphere of peaceful nostalgia enveloped them. The walls were adorned with cheerful paintings, and sunlight streamed through the sheer curtains, casting a soft glow over the neatly made bed where Doris lay. The elderly woman appeared frail, her silver hair framing her gentle face, but there was a sparkle in her eyes that showed she still harbored a love for life.

“Hello,” Doris greeted warmly, her voice slightly shaky but imbued with kindness. “...and who is this young man?”

“This is Mr. Patrick,” Mrs. Schultzy introduced, “He’s going to be staying with you for a little while.”

Doris’s gaze shifted to Patrick, and she smiled. “Very nice to meet you. I hope you're not too squeamish about old ladies.”

“Not at all, Mrs. Doris,” Patrick chuckled, his demeanor becoming instantly warm and reassuring. “I have a lot of experience with wonderful women like you. I’m here to help in any way I can.”

As the conversation flowed, Patrick established a rapport with Doris that was both gentle and professional. He took the time to listen to her stories, coaxing her to share memories of her younger days. While he conducted basic health assessments and ensured her comfort, he also engaged her with patience and empathy, clearly putting her at ease.

Patrick had been working with Doris for a week now, and he was beginning to notice something that didn’t quite align with what Mrs. Schultzy had described. Doris, while undeniably needing assistance with her physical ailments, seemed sharper mentally than Patrick had expected.

Sure, Doris had moments of forgetfulness---like when she misplaced her glasses or struggled to recall the name of a neighbor from years ago---but she also had moments of surprising clarity. Patrick often caught her humming along to a song on the radio and recounting detailed stories from her past with vivid accuracy.

One afternoon, as Patrick helped Doris into her favorite armchair by the window, he decided to gently test the waters.

“Mrs. Doris,” Patrick began, his tone light and conversational, “your daughter mentioned you sometimes get confused about things. But you seem pretty sharp to me.”

Doris chuckled, her wrinkled hands smoothing the lap blanket Patrick had placed over her legs. “Oh, Patrick, my mind’s not as quick as it used to be, but it’s not all mush, either. My daughter worries too much. Always has.”

Patrick tilted his head, curious. “She said you sometimes forget where you are.”

“Once in a while,” Doris admitted, shrugging. “It’s this house. It’s changed so much over the years---new furniture, new paint---it doesn’t always feel like the home I knew. But give me a minute, and it comes back to me.”

Patrick smiled. “That makes sense. And what about getting upset or agitated?”

Doris waved a dismissive hand. “Oh, that’s just when someone talks to me like I’m a child or forgets to listen to what I’m saying. Wouldn’t you get upset, too?”

Patrick couldn’t help but laugh. Doris had a point. “I think you’re right.”

Doris leaned forward slightly, her sharp eyes meeting Patrick’s. “I know I need help with my hands and legs. Arthritis is a cruel thing. But don’t let my daughter make you think I’m completely gone up here,” she said, tapping her temple. “I’ve still got plenty left.”

From that day on, Patrick approached Doris with a renewed perspective. While he provided the physical support Doris needed, he also engaged her in conversations, puzzles, and storytelling. Patrick realized that Doris might not be as far gone as Mrs. Schultzy feared; he just needed someone to treat her with respect and patience.

The day Doris was to leave for the nursing home was heavy with tension. Mrs. Schultzy paced the living room, wringing her hands while Patrick sat nearby, silently watching over Doris. Doris, who had been in high spirits earlier in the week, now sat stiffly in her armchair, her eyes darting suspiciously between her daughter and the strangers who had arrived from the nursing home.

“Doris,” Mrs. Schultzy said gently, crouching in front of her, “this is for the best. You’ll have people around all the time to help you. You won’t be alone.”

Doris’s lips pressed into a tight line. “I’m not going,” she said firmly, gripping the arms of her chair. “This is my home. I don’t need a bunch of strangers telling me what to do.”

One of the nursing home attendants, a tall man with a calm demeanor, stepped forward. “Mrs. Doris, we’re here to help you settle in. The facility is lovely, and we’ll make sure you’re comfortable.”

Doris narrowed her eyes, her voice rising. “Comfortable? You mean locked away! I know what this is---you think I’m crazy. But I’m not. They did this to me!”

Patrick exchanged a worried glance with Mrs. Schultzy. “Mrs. Doris,” she said softly, “no one thinks you’re crazy. This is just a place where you’ll have more help with your arthritis and everything else you need.”

Doris shook her head violently, her voice trembling with both anger and fear. “No! I’m not going anywhere! I won’t let you take me!”

Her protests grew louder, her body tense as she clung to the armchair. Mrs. Schultzy looked at the attendants, tears in her eyes. “Is there anything you can do to make this easier for her?”

The shorter of the two attendants, a woman with kind eyes, nodded. “We can give her something to help her relax. It’s a mild sedative, just to keep her calm during the transition.”


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